Have that one family conflict that feels like a stubborn knot in your back? We can probably repair it in one 90-minute session, free of charge,
with one catch*.
The Rupture Repair Role Play is a 90-minute coaching session with you and any members of your family who want to join us, where I guide you through resolving one family conflict by role-playing the situation through both you and your child’s eyes.
This surprisingly transformative process allows us to find creative solutions together in record time.
Often this one session not only repairs the particular rupture a family came in with, but they are able to apply the same formula to future issues and create their own family conflict transformation protocol without any additional help from me.
Occasionally however, we discover that there’s more going on than can be solved in one session—that the issue that seemed like a pesky hornet was actually a hornet’s nest. In which case, you might choose to do some more sessions.
Here are some examples of ruptures families have been able to repair in one session:
There are two options for doing a rupture repair role play with me: free or paid.
I offer the Rupture Repair Role Play, free of charge, in exchange for permission to use the audio recording as a teaching tool. Your anonymity is protected because I only record the audio, we only use first names, and even those can be pseudonyms.
These recordings provide an invaluable resource for learning and transformation. I use them in workshops and share them on my YouTube channel, and as paid bonus content, where they become powerful teaching tools.
Hearing people work through challenges in real-time—unraveling knots in their thinking and emotions—is not only transformative for those involved, but also for those listening. When people hear others navigating their struggles and breakthroughs, it shortens their learning curve. It’s a rare opportunity to witness authentic growth, inspiring and relatable for anyone on their own journey.
Here’s an example of an excerpt from a recorded role play I’ve used in a workshop.
Rather me not use the audio recording? No problem! Fully anonymous sessions are $175-$250, sliding scale.
“My relationship with my daughter was forever changed by the work we did. My daughter trusts me now and we seldom have conflicts anymore. Our relationship is now really open and great. ”
Hi. I’m Lisa.
I’ve spent the last two decades learning, practicing, and teaching hundreds of parents how to prevent family conflicts. I started doing this work because I decided that I wouldn’t have kids until I had tools to do things differently than my (well-intentioned and loving) parents did. I have two kids.
Parents usually feel judged
Parents usually
feel judged
by their kids, their partners, their in-laws, other parents, and (the harshest critics of all) themselves. I see what every family member does through a judgment-free lens, which results in robust, compassionate conflict transformation.
I majored in Chinese in college, produced a podcast at a food truck park, and perform monologues like Date Night at Pet Emergency and the Mommy Meltdown Show. I also love square dancing and tandem pedal kayaks.
You’ve probably noticed that I don’t have any letters after my name. That’s because the skills you need to prevent conflicts and repair ruptures don’t require a degree in mental health. They’re accessible to everyone. My clients and I are living proof of that.