Practical strategies to prevent and repair family conflicts

Conflict Prevention
Jumpstart Kit

Want to stop feeling like a police officer or a pushover?

Want to stop feeling like a police
officer or a pushover?

Want to learn how to turn each conflict into an opportunity for more trust and connection?

Want to learn how to turn each conflict into an opportunity for more trust and connection?

No shaming or blaming.

No “because I said so.”

No giving up on what’s important to you.

No giving up on
what’s important to you.

The kit includes a clear explanation of the surprising reason conflicts happen, a proven methodology to prevent them, and an invitation to a free 30-minute family strategy session.

The kit includes a clear explanation of the surprising reason conflicts happen, a proven methodology to prevent them, and an invitation to a free 30-minute family strategy session.

Two photos, taken several years apart, of Lisa and her husband and two sons
Headshot of Jessica Bradshaw

Jessica Bradshaw

“My relationship with my daughter was forever changed by the work we did. My daughter trusts me now and we seldom have conflicts anymore. Our relationship is now really open and great.”

Vincent Rueda

Ericeira, Portugal

“In the first session, we quickly got a strategy for me and my partner to be teammates with our kids. And with a few more sessions, I managed to get more at peace with my eight-year-old son, my father, and myself. Lisa’s got the magic that people get from doing for decades what they are passionate about. She attends both to the urgency of the situation and the long term work that is needed.”

When we know how to speak truth with care
we move from rupture to repair.

When we know how to speak truth with care we move from rupture to repair.

Welcome to Stop Family Conflict. I’m so glad you’re here.

My name is Lisa Rothman. For 20 years, I’ve been giving families the skills they need to finally get along.

If you’ve tried a million things but can’t stop the same fights from happening…

If you’re tired of feeling like a police officer or a pushover (sometimes both on the same day)…

You’re in the right place.

I have a number of offerings, all designed to meet you and your family exactly where you’re at— whether you’re miserable from morning to night, or you just have that one sticky conflict that’s a thorn in your side, or you’re simply looking for more collaboration so you don’t feel so alone.

Whatever your situation is, I’ve probably already helped somebody get through something similar. And even if I haven’t, the tools I’ve discovered and created are adaptable to conflicts of any size.

Monica Lin and Edmund Chun

Parents of Gabriel and Julian, Oakland

“We talked with our kids about what we learned from Lisa. We explained how to approach a conflict situation so it can result in a positive outcome for all involved. Lisa helped us see conflicts we deal with as a family in a new light.”

Michelle Remy

Sierra Vista PE Teacher

“As an educator, I am looking forward to using the tools Lisa shares with my so-called ‘trouble-makers,’ many of whom are dealing with trauma. As a mother, I appreciate the emphasis on repair.”