How To Prevent Family Conflict Without Feeling Like a Pushover or a Police Officer

Begin turning family arguments into opportunities for more trust and connection. No shaming or blaming. No giving up on what’s important to you. No “because I said so.”

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In the kit, you’ll get:

  • 🎥 ​A workshop recording​​
    Learn a system for understanding and navigating family conflict.
  • 🧰 ​A quick-reference sheet​​
    Use the 4 Cs of Conflict Prevention and Repair in the moment, whenever tensions jump off.
  • 📘 ​A short, practical guide​​
    ​ Apply what you learn to a real situation in your family.​

Shirley
Scotland

“I’m planning to keep ‘The Four Cs for Conflict Prevention & Repair’ sheet and the ‘Family Conflict Transformation Mini-Guide’ handy while on family holiday!”

Daisy Barquist
Baltimore

“The kit gave me a clear, effective plan — and I’ve already come back to learn more.”

About Your Coach

Hi. I’m Lisa.

I’ve spent the last two decades learning, practicing, and teaching hundreds of parents how to prevent family conflicts. I started doing this work because I decided that I wouldn’t have kids until I had tools to do things differently than my (well-intentioned and loving) parents did. I have two kids.

Parents usually feel judged by their kids, their partners, their in-laws, other parents, and (the harshest critics of all) themselves. I see what every family member does through a judgment-free lens, which results in robust, compassionate conflict transformation.