Practical strategies to prevent and repair family conflicts

Conflict Prevention
Jumpstart Kit

Want to stop feeling like a police officer or a pushover?

Want to stop feeling like a police
officer or a pushover?

Want to learn how to turn each conflict into an opportunity for more trust and connection?

Want to learn how to turn each conflict into an opportunity for more trust and connection?

No shaming or blaming.

No “because I said so.”

No giving up on what’s important to you.

No giving up on
what’s important to you.

The kit even includes a cheat sheet you can stick on your refrigerator door to prevent a conflict the instant you feel it coming on and a free 30-minute family strategy session.

The kit even includes a cheat sheet you can stick on your refrigerator door to prevent a conflict the instant you feel it coming on and a free 30-minute family strategy session.

Monica Lin and Edmund Chun

Parents of Gabriel and Julian, Oakland

“We talked with our kids about what we learned from Lisa. We explained how to approach a conflict situation so it can result in a positive outcome for all involved. Lisa helped us see conflicts we deal with as a family in a new light.”

When we know how to speak truth with care
we move from rupture to repair.

When we know how to speak truth with care we move from rupture to repair.

Welcome to Stop Family Conflict. I’m so glad you’re here.

My name is Lisa Rothman. For 20 years, I’ve been giving families the skills they need to find solutions to seemingly intractable conflicts and experience intergenerational healing.

If you’ve tried a million things but can’t stop the same fights from happening…

If you’re tired of feeling like a police officer or a pushover (sometimes both on the same day)…

You’re in the right place.

I have a number of offerings, all designed to meet you and your family exactly where you’re at— whether you’re miserable from morning to night, or you just have that one sticky conflict that’s a thorn in your side, or you’re simply looking for more collaboration so you don’t feel so alone.

Whatever your situation is, I’ve probably already helped somebody get through something similar. And even if I haven’t, the tools I’ve discovered and created are adaptable to conflicts of any size.

Jessica Bradshaw

“My relationship with my daughter was forever changed by the work we did. My daughter trusts me now and we seldom have conflicts anymore. Our relationship is now really open and great.”

Michelle Remy

Sierra Vista PE Teacher

“As an educator, I am looking forward to using the tools Lisa shares with my so-called ‘trouble-makers,’ many of whom are dealing with trauma. As a mother, I appreciate the emphasis on repair.”