Get Your Free
5 Step Family Conflict Prevention Plan
for the Holidays

Get Your Free
5 Step Family Conflict Prevention Plan for the Holidays

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Halloween and Veterans Day are over.

It’s time to buckle up for the Big Ones:

Halloween and Veterans Day are over. It’s time to buckle up for the Big Ones:

The holidays that involve

Meals with in-laws who not only voted for a different presidential candidate than you did but are also questioning your parenting choices
Long days cooped up at home in bad weather where the only alternative to fighting seems to be everyone burrowing into a screen
Squabble-filled road trips with someone whining “Are we there yet?” for the bajillionth time
Delayed flights

It’s a recipe for conflict that’s nowhere near as tasty as my cousin Cheyenne’s noodle kugel.

Imagine having tools to prevent family conflicts before they get gnarly.

That’s why I created the 5-Step Family Conflict Prevention Plan for the Holidays.

Each day you’ll get an email that includes a short video sent to you daily, for five days explaining each of the steps and questions for you to answer so that you can implement them.

The Plan also includes:

A simple sentence starter that lets you express yourself authentically without making the conflict worse
A surprising strategy for accessing support that’s helped others and has completely transformed my own experience of the holidays with my dad.
An invitation to free Family Conflict Hotline Calls to adapt the steps to your unique situation

Daisy Barquist

Baltimore, Maryland

“The daily emails offer an effective plan. I’ve come back to learn more. They’re palatable, palpable and persuasive. There’s substance, openness, and genuine helpfulness within a judgment-free space.”

About Me

Hi. I’m Lisa.

I’ve spent the last two decades learning, practicing, and teaching hundreds of parents how to prevent family conflicts. I started doing this work because I decided that I wouldn’t have kids until I had tools to do things differently than my (well-intentioned and loving) parents did. I have two kids who are now 15 and 18.

Parents usually feel judged

Parents usually
feel judged

by their kids, their partners, their in-laws, other parents, and (the harshest critics of all) themselves. I see what every family member does through a judgment-free lens, which results in robust, compassionate conflict transformation.

You’ve probably noticed that I don’t have any letters after my name. That’s because the skills you need to prevent conflicts and repair ruptures don’t require a degree in mental health. They’re accessible to everyone. My clients and I are living proof of that.